Originally Posted by
outtolunch 
How exactly does one distance themself from a relationship and have a good time together?
I am sorry I didn't elaborate..I didn't mean sex or intimacy between us I meant when I see a part of the person that I love. The part that makes my heart ache a little for what "could be". I know that it is an illusion, a dream...and I am not going back on my choice to change my life for the better. I was just asking how others deal with that heartache. Sorry I was misunderstood.
And yes I am distancing myself I have a plan and am following through a step at a time.