Maybe ask the mods?
One inparticular was very helpful with experience around difficult/impossible amends..
unfortunatley it get way heated in here sometimes....which is ok i guess.
imo there are a few people that make it there business to get on a 12 steps forum to do one of 2 things.
they either slating AA and or quoting nonsense as fact......
not much harm in that you would think.......?
but picture me 2 weeks sober...........at the end of my rope and i think ill get on this sr thing and check 12 steps.....rather than a solution i see tit for tat sniping....ive already clicked my mouse and im gone...