I think eventually it catches up to you. I know that I see people who are caught all the time, and red flags put on their file.
I don't know how any of it works really. The only drug I ever liked was meth, lol.
I always have the pharmacies calling me to come pick up any prescriptions I have.
It's hard for our parents I know your dad is frustrating, but parents tend to think, and want to believe that they can fix their kids. And often when they don't then our
problems are 'their fault', so we can become and addiction for them.
You'll see on this forum almost daily, "What did I do wrong"...........
He just has to get to his own understanding of what is going on when he's ready.
In the mean time, Thank God the kids have you! :day6
JMO