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Originally Posted by
OneLastChance 
Should I try and contact the same guy? Or start anew? I haven't seen him at the regular meeting I was attending until thrusday when he came late and left early.
I would guess he would love to hear from you. He's been waiting all this time for you to call so he can show you the solution.
In AA there is nothing to be ashamed about if you have been drinking. We have all been there and we all understand. If you can admit to it, talk about it, share about it, then you are part way to working step 1. Honesty with yourself is very important and it is easier to do this with people who understand (other alcoholics) rather than those who don't (like your wife) at the moment.
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