I am so glad this question was posted because the same thoughts were going through my mind last night. We were watching tv last night my bf and I. and i am seeing all of these outgoing people and there upbeat personalities....and I am like I was usually only like that if I had a few drinks with friends and then I couldn't stop and just enjoy it...I had to keep drinking til I was wasted. but yet when my bf and I have had date night and gone out to dinner I have been able to just have one or two glasses of wine...and that was it. It seems like for me it's the pressure of influences around me , so I have already decided to stay away from the those influences - certain people.....