Originally Posted by
Kiki14738 
Fair and honest. For me, my "conditioning" since birth as an enabler/codie has been defining my actions as "being nice". Then
when i turn 180 and get angry, I am labled a b*7ch. It's a no win situation that I have allowed. Repeat..... I have allowed....I have allowed. I'm still in training.
We set boundaries for ourselves and in doing so determine how people will treat us. When we do this, we
let go of the outcome because we don't control other people.
Anger is a common emotion when we don't let go of the outcome, what other people do, or not.
Girls are often raised to, no matter what, be nice/play nice. When we establish boundaries for ourselves, we are being nice to ourselves. Ain't nothing wrong with that.
We are all works in progress.