North, I was much like you. I could give it up all the time or just have one or two a couple of times but then it seems about once a month or so I over do it. It just seems that giving it up for good is the best way. My boyfriend and I have discussed that we enjoy each other's company much more without it. We are going to a concert out of town in two weeks and actually we are excited to experience the show and music sober. This will be the first time for me since probably I was in High School.