What does this mean? "shovel through my bs and get to the heart of a matter?"
Does it mean you're lying to them?
Or does it mean you aren't yet aware of a pattern that you should or can fix?
I'm truly confused. It sounds so derogatory. Are you BS'ing them? I think this is when I have issues here because when i come here, or talk to friends, I don't lie. I'm a brutally honest person--especially with myself. And if I'm "in denial" then why be unkind in helping someone see it?
thanks for this thread!