Originally Posted by
Alizerin 
Boundaries.
So, if saying by Wendsday, he needs to be able to discuss it with me. And if all he does at that point is reverse it on me... I need to tell him that we need time apart. A good month to get my head together (his too but I won't say it). If he's responsive, rehab seems the most beneficial action as he had good results two years ago. I've read posts about suboxone<?> What a pain that would be. I would like to see him in really good hands.
now that sounds like a plan, it now sounds like you are taking control over what you will except in your life and not in a round about way, controling his. hope everything goes as planned, hope he don''t decide to throw a fit and just decide rehab would be better.