Two things for opinions please before today's confrontation (which will be loving and caring):
1.) I'm thinking that it might be best to wait until the evening, as that's when he's calmest (highest). As it would just make it a teensy more hard for BOTH of us to deny when I'm staring at his stoned eyes.
2.) The ultimatum. Wendsday reasonable? Oh yes, I'll be sticking to it. Rehab or trial seperation. The seperation will not be vengeful. I really see it as a positive move forward. I'm in his way of hitting bottom it seems. This won't be done on impulse. Ideally, if he's willing and I'll try all my might - We'll plan the seperation and discuss how it can be done.
Now, whether or not he bolts out the door in a pissy fit is another question! I'm just determined to keep my side of the street clean.
I think I've come a long way in here in a relatively short time! Wow.