Originally Posted by
pitario 
Oh there is a lot more to this story. He has told me there is more but isn't ready to tell yet. Another red flag - I need the entire story so I can make an honest decision. If he can't tell me for fear of me leaving, or whatever reason he has, it blew up in his face because I'm gone anyway.
One of my exes would drop a huge emotional bombshell on me (ex. mother sexually abused him!) and when i would ask,
good god, why have you never mentioned this before?!?!?!?
his answer,
you never asked.
okay, so i have to pull every stinkin truth out of you?
uh, no thanks.