Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
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i dare to suggest that there is A LOT MORE to this story than you have been told. and i also suggest this is a man with more red flags hanging off him than the United Nations.....this may be a good time to take those two steps back (or twelve.....) and really reassess things - from the perspective of WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. cuz so far all that has come out is how needy he is, and troubled, and stuff.....i'm just not hearing where this is a healthy life affirming situation for YOU........????
Oh there is a lot more to this story. He has told me there is more but isn't ready to tell yet. Another red flag - I need the entire story so I can make an honest decision. If he can't tell me for fear of me leaving, or whatever reason he has, it blew up in his face because I'm gone anyway.