I know how you feel hun, nothing has any semblence of right or just when dealing with an addict. He is stealing from you and the kids. Don't let him anymore.
I paid for AH's truck & the insurance and 90% of the time his gas. When the insurance totalled it there would be about 100 between the settlement and the payoff. He had the nerve to ask me for it.
I had yanked him off the policy so even if he tried he would'nt be able to get it. And I bet he tried just that. See whats left that he can pull something on & make arrangments for him to have no access to it. Protect yourself, because he sure won't.
Deal him back some of the misery he's been dealing you, because, as I was told here, the misery belongs to him.
Hugs,
Teggie