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Old 01-30-2010, 11:13 AM
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FindingPeace1
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[QUOTE=Bucyn;2501419]You aren't going to get what you want.

You can change what you want though, to something that you can get.

What you want, him to change, is as impossible as you wanting your little boy to change into a little girl. If it's important to you to have a little girl, then rather than waiting for your son to become one, you should adopt or have another child. But if you wait for your son to turn into a little girl, you are wasting your life; and if you try to force him to become one, you are going to destroy both of you.

Will your husband change. Almost certainly. But not likely as you imagine. If he doesn't get treatment, he will change for the worse. It's inevitable. If he does change, he will change his way, in a direction that serves his needs, not those of you and your son.

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HOLY SMOKES are you ON FIRE Bucyn!
This is fabulous stuff!!
Thanks!!!
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