My phone has been ringing off the hook from his family members wondering what to do.
His family knows he has a problem yet are ringing your phone off the hook? Looks like maybe a gossip circle is going to start. YOU go take a bubble bath and turn off your phone. DO YOU! Of course you are worried, his family is worried. The worry is going to consume you and make you sick, spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally, womanly, etc. You have come this far in staking your boundaries, the storm is beginning to thunder and when the storm dies out you are going to be a stronger, wiser, healthier woman. Step out of the crossfire and keep doing what you're doing.