Addict parents of AH want to visit??
My AH has supposedly been clean for about 3 weeks now. He is seeing a councelor and I am attending naranon meetings. I would like some input about the current situation.
AH's parents are addicts and no where near recovery or admitting anything is wrong with what they do. They have been known to use drugs with AH. AH asked me today if his parents could come vist at the end of Feb.
I knew this was going to come up sooner or later and I had already been thinking about how I wanted to handle the situation. I do not personally want them in my house. I am not afraid of them stealing or anything like that. They are actually very nice, but addicts.
So I responded to my AH that I would like us to visit his councelor together to discuss his parents.
When we were talking about his parents he said you can drug test me while they are here I'm not going to do drugs. AH said my parents want to see their grandchild. I told him that we were dealing with alot right now and that I was uncomfortable with them using drugs in my house. AH's parents are perscribed drugs so they use that as an excuse.
I am unsure as to how to handle this situation. I want to avoid a fight with AH, but I don't think it's possible. I have always let his parents visit, but now I feel differently. I am hoping the councelor can help us deal with this.
Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks