So, I might have missed something, but you have asked him to stay away for the weekends, but he's at home during the week?
Do you have a "move out by" date? That will help.
Good for you, by the way!
I don't have experience here, but I would say the feelings are just feelings. On a good day, I trust that they will pass. Feel them, with a neutral observer reminding me that they will come and go. Meanwhile, another part of me is linked up to my Higher, Deeper Power and is resting in the endless love that always encompasses me.
You rock, girlfriend!
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