The oddest thing...the men I loved as an active alcoholic
are not the men I find interesting in recovery
Wow Carol, that one has never occurred to me, oh well I'm not going to find out as I'm still married to the one I found interesting when I was drinking
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Hi P41 and welcome,
I always thought my plight (poor me
) being in recovery with a hb that still drinks was pretty tough. Thinking about it, I think yours is just as tough if not tougher. At least I can live around him and still be sober. I don't know if I would be a good support and adviser for someone that is struggling. Not yet anyway. I'm practising here on SR, but it's a different story inside your own home. Good luck - keep coming back. We are here for you. Your sobriety is priority. Always.