My 8 yo told me she'd rather live at her Nana's house after this last Christmas visitation.
Why I asked, well it's bigger and nicer. And her Nana tells her she can come to live there when she's 12, 'cause then the kid can decide. Thanks you cesspool of dysfunction.
I tell LMC until she's 18,
I decide where she lives and that will be with me. End of story. Kids don't get to decide where they live
because they are kids.
Also if they (kid) know it bothers you, you will hear it often just for their entertainment.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote