Originally Posted by
yeahgr8 
And i would imagine its the same sentiment for ladies getting sober, wanting to attract a different sort of man for probably much the same reasons;-)
I have not had one relationship (or encounter
) for the right reasons ever in my life. Sad but true. There's been no girl meets boy, both finds each other attractive, falls in love etc......
Next time has to be different. This is one lesson I want to have learned. No more co-dependancy and no more drinking because the beer goggles enable me to actually have sex with the person I am with, if you know what I mean.
I know His plan for me is to have a happy, healthy relationship....I will just be patient and let it happen in His time, not mine.