Yes, I'm trying to accept that this is what he needs. When he went to rehab last year my counselor discussed that once he got sober the marriage could still end and I've get that. I just didn't think for us that would be the way we went. We have been best friends since we were 15 years old (32 and 33 now) dating since 18 and married for 6. The addiction started almost 3 years ago so we have had a good solid relationship for much longer than we had addiction. I just figured we had the foundation for a healthy relationship already in place and we could work through these feelings. We both come from families with long marriages (my parents 38 and his parents 35) so we hve excellent roll models-I guess he feels too much has been done.