Thanks for all the posts and ideas for those ringtones. I just spoke to a friend who has "who let the dogs out" as her ringtone for her XAH and XMIL, and knowing both of these people I think she is spot on.
Haven't sorted any out for my own RABF yet, but will have another look soon.
I looked on ZEDGE (online where you can download ringtones of all types for FREE.)
and downloaded quite a few I liked, so have them filed away for future use.
There are times when a thread is so hard and difficult for all on it, and I feel down about the people and the problem, and for some reason I must do something to ease this for me. Often I have popped in a funny image, but was warned that some here may be offended or upset, thinking I was belittling the problem and hurt they felt.
Should I go on as I have for the 16 months I have been on SR, or cease doing it in case I hurt others? Causing someone extra pain is the last thing I want to do or intend.
Bless you all