Thanks for all the replies. It's kind of funny reading the responses though. I do have a sponsor, which I didn't post in my original topic. But down the line it turned into the question of.... if I had a sponsor....., to needing to work the steps with a sponsor...... to finally...I need to get a sponsor. Kind of reminded me of the game telephone. LOL! I am focusing only on step 4 at the moment, but the reason I asked was because in another post, someone used the quote I included and it just got me thinking. I wasn't working that step (step 9). I was just looking for others opinions!!!!