Luv, I was given the advice to not get sucked into his alcoholism. So I don't keep track of what he drinks. If he asks me to pick up a case of beer I do it. Just like I did when I was married to my ex who is not an A but enjoyed an occasional beer. IF he were sick I would refuse. I mean....if he was diagnosed with liver damage and told to stop...I would not buy it for him. He would be doing that himself.
I don't hate buying it yet. But I am almost there....especially after this weekend. Taht was a real eye opener.
I DO hate it when he packs a cooler to go eat out. I have to drive of course as he drinks all the way and all the way home. A COOLER to drive 15 minutes down the road....totally amazing.