Originally Posted by
myawakening 
Agreed!
Trust is just another element of our lives that takes a hit when involved with an A. Trust takes time to rebuild when it has been damaged. It will only happen when the person that betrayed your trust...works honestly at helping you rebuild it. Or...if you did meet someone else...this person would have to behave in a decent honest TRUSTWORTHY manner so that trust can built between you. Trust is not a right of passage...it's earned.
(((HUGS)))
Yes trust has to be earned and it is one of the hardest things my XAW is dealing with. She has asked me "can you ever trust me again?" I said exactly what you did that is has to be earned and you have to work on regaining that trust.