Thread: We're meeting @ 3PM!!!!
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Old 01-10-2010, 10:21 AM
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Exclamation We're meeting @ 3PM!!!!
Gulp.

My AH just called and we both agreed to meet at 3PM today.

We have not finalized anything yet, and have some "closure" to deal with. We still "technically" live together, but have been separated. We both need to discuss a plan on our living arrangements and also discuss where we are.
Can't and won't just "drop it" after 10 years. I am not like that and need to hold my head up high knowing I did things the way I am proudest of.

I pray that these 11 days of working on Me payoff...and I will not go into this meeting with any expectations about him. I also know that this will not "all go away" today...it didn't happen in one day, one get "fixed" in one day.

I will know immediately by his "state of mind" whether we will end up having this conversation, or I tell him I changed my mind and I am not ready.

I've been writing my "pros" and "cons" list all morning, and moved onto a list of "What I Want In A Relationship"...which I think is the better of all the "lists".

"Serenity Prayer Here" and the 3 "C"s I remember.

Any advice here is good advice, I am a bit nervous. As to be expected.
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