Originally Posted by
cmhcali 
I checked my abf phone records and the night he said his phone was dead and had a flat tire he made many calls to a number I called it and had the number in my phone. I quickly realized it was his brothers gf whom is active. I got him and I dont know what to do.... He lied and is using????
You caught him in a lie (isn't the first time, won't be the last)
He is using (and he will continue to use UNTIL/UNLESS HE hits his rock bottom)
Don't know what to do (maybe hit a Nar-Anon meeting, work on your recovery)
There isn't any thing you can do to change him. But if you are ready you can take control of your life back
Hugs,
Passion