Thank you, Dreamer.
It is hard to not feel guilty and wonder if I am a "team player".
P.S. I did offer to share the project with her, and offered her help for the follow-up work tomorrow and even asked if she had somewhere she needed to be tonight, in which case I would have taken the late project
It does make me wonder - is it that we are "nice people" and "good -natured" or is it that people see us as having no backbone, and usable?