Originally Posted by
NYC_Chick 
You don't have to be with her to be a father to your child. Also, have you reported her drinking while pregnant to anyone?
Yes, to the legal guardians of her son, and to our Obstitrician who in turn alerted her GP - who is aware of her time in rehab. There's really nothing else I can do.
She's now turning everything back onto me. She knows I'm involved with Al Anon and has now sent me the 12 steps and says I should work on them. She herself, of course, has 'quit' drinking.....just like that, apparently.....or so she says.
She's got to be the biggest liar and manipulator I have ever met. If I keep on trying to reason with this person, it will drive me insane. I really, really don't like this person much at all anymore.