Welcome to the SR family!
You will find lots of support here. I'm glad you took the time to introduce yourself.
Here at SR I learned about the three C's of alcoholism:
I didn't cause the alcoholism
I can't control the alcoholism
I won't cure the alcoholism
That helped me put the alcoholism back where it belonged, with the alcoholic.
The freedom from not being responsible for another person's addiction allowed me to take better care of myself.
I hope you will stick around and read some of the permanent posts (called stickies) at the top of this forum. Post as many questions and concerns as you need, we're here to support you.
((hugs))