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01-04-2010, 04:12 PM

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sofacat

work in progress

Join Date: Sep 2009

Location: the sunshine state

Posts: 623

Thanks teke,

I'm sure he'll surface again. He's not a violent man, nor vengeful. His always been kind of the "happy", funny guy. He's a codie-people-pleaser too. So I don't feel threatened by him that way. He is a grudge holder though...and accountability has never been his strong suit. (surprise, surprise.)

I didn't tell him he had to move out. I told him he can't be here unless he's sober. And right now, though he "says" he is sober...we both know he is not. Right now he's got his enabling parents who wouldn't dare confront him even if they found the pills as his audience. So he's got fuel for his fire, ya know?

Only time will tell. But thank you, and I will be sure to make provisions. My mother lives right across the street from me (another mini series) and a neighbor across the street who doesn't miss a thing! Sometimes I guess you need your neighbors to be nosy!