Originally Posted by
mentallyexh 
WOW...so today he stopped by today to see our daughter and he was full of negativity. He started with (sarcastically), Wow the house looks great...laughing. I am switching two rooms out which is taking some time because I have a 13 month old. Then about the color of paint, "the ugliest green in the world". Then about the dogs being in and there being dog hair. Well....by then I was upset and walked out of the room....and he says to my 13month...."Look, A mommy is visibly angry...then starts laughing....HE IS PSYCHO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And yet he accuses me of always bi****** and complaining...really??? I said nothing negative and was being nice! What is WRONG WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!
Sounds like deflection. If there isn't anything major for him to attack you with - then he will manufacture things. Needle about countless small things. Then when he gets a reaction from his blatantly outrageous remarks and points, he can point his finger and say - 'See, you are the one with the problem.'
Mine does that when I let her - namely, says outrageous things, lies, makes things up and makes me look bad - then when I get angered, she says I need anger management therapy.
Well.....who wouldn't, putting up with that crap!!