Hi Girl, glad you see you moved out and are doing better.
FYI we're not living together. he stayed here temporarily until Christmas and has gone to his place. I posted about it elsewhere, I think it's called "what is this place?"
And you do remember correctly, I was triggered-and bad-while moving the last of my stuff out of our foreclosed marital home. HE didn't do anything in the present moment, but I was pretty darn angry.
Now that you bring that up, I think that was all part of why I feel so much better. That's over and gone. I am not living in that town, in that house where he brought his bimbo and i lived alone for 4 months with the kids. I have my own place--oh and I agreed to let him stay here because it was our first Christmas out of the old house, his place wasn't ready and he was here organizing my house and how anyway. Easy trade. It was temporary--and worth it.
go to the other thread and we'll talk, darling...