I'm so sorry. I'm happiest when I have no contact with my AH. It seems each time I have to deal with him or anyone who has had contact with him it throws of my balance somehow. I do tell myself all the time that to expect him to act what I think is 'normal' would just set myself up for hurt. I should also expect to be disappointed just like when we where together.
I think that helps... again I'm sorry... I know it's really hard... I think it gets easier thought...