Thanks... everything is going good... seems like the only time we "argue" is about piddly stuff now, and that's kind of fun... maybe that's one thing that is a blessing about the past - I
know it is piddly and actually enjoy the fact that it's what we argue about.
Yes, I am totally able to "stay out of it" now... I learned so much being alone with myself for 8 loooong months ... it was kind of forced in a way but it worked out exactly how it was supposed to because I realized I liked myself too darned much to put up with anything other than what I deserve among many other things. Best thing I can ever recommend to anyone... getting to know yourself without the distractions... if you have the luxury... though it's harder said than done.
Anyway, hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas!