i gave up trying to communicate clearly with my xABF. for 6 months he asked, what do i have to do to save this relationship? i answered:
1. go to AA and work the steps.
2. quit working as a bouncer at the bar
for six months i said this. very clearly. after six months, he came to me in tears, asking
what do i have to do?
just crazy. i made the mistake of thinking that he was reasonable and coherent. now, i realize he lives in a different consciousness than i do and can't hear or take in simple data.