Hugs to you Elsie.
His addiction is number one right now and that is the ONLY thing this man cares about. Nothing you did or can do will get him sober. Getting sober is an individual's choice period. Don't take it personal. All you can do is pray for him right now.
Please take care of you. None of us know what the future will bring. Take care of you. It is tough but a short time of pain is better than a lifetime of misery.
Jenn