teke,
my boyfriend just told me to tell you to get a restraining order, even before he gets out. i don't know how easy it is, but he says it is. you write a letter to the judge, get the order, then if he violates it he is in violation of his parole. i know you have children and they have a right to have a relationship with him, but perhaps this hard line would serve several purposes at the same time for you. at any rate, maybe tell him that at least for awhile you need to maintain the no contact