I know where you are at, girl... For me it's not basket ball-- it's softball, bowling, golf, sports on TV... Then after the bar closes, it's off to someone's house to continue the party. Usually into the next day.. sometimes, the day after that.. Yuck..
Taking the car and leaving me stranded. It's good that you kept the keys from him. He has no right to the good car, when you have the kids!!!!
Good luck.... We ALL need it...