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Hang in there!
Originally Posted by
KeepPedaling 
give him sobriety and the power to make him drink. He told me this when I said he could not come and stay with me. He thinks staying with me will help him get off of the binge drunk he's been on for weeks.
He said, "You have the power to give me sobriety and the power to make me drink." He said this when he was drunk.
And may I say that this is big old pile of fertilizer! You are not at all responsible for his drinking, his not drinking, his hang nails, his split ends, the color of his sky, anything. Your last line said it all....."I cannot let him come over". That, IMHO, is your answer.
Good luck as you continue to find your peace and serenity.
Hugs, HG