Anyway, the answer to my own question is, "No, I'm not jumping ship too soon; I'm jumping ship right on time."
I LOVE what you said above!! I struggle with the "Oh this time he will get the help and I can't jump ship too soon" . Hello, what do I consider jumping too soon, I have been trying to get him help for 5 years NOW. I am starting to think I am jumping ship to late. Now if only I could get help with the jumping part. Any suggestions?