Originally Posted by
KeepPedaling 
He said, "You have the power to give me sobriety and the power to make me drink."
KP-read the above sentence from your post. If you had the power to give him sobriety...he would be sober by now. If you have the power to make him drink...that's his out for when you take him back and he does it again...and you know he will.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and over again expecting a different result! The only thing that will be different is the date on the calendar!
Focus on making yourself well...not him. You didn't create his problem and you are NOT responsible for his care or cure. This just his BS to snag you back in. Don't fall for it. You deserve better!!
And NO-IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. Don't take on that guilt. He has a disease...and you are not at fault for it!!!