Originally Posted by
Carol Star 
I have been there,done that,have the t-shirt....I stayed so angry. I felt the beer was a mistress. Miss Natural Lite. He cracked one open every 7 minutes. It 's sad. I miss the guy he could have been. I was crazier than he was. He was selfish. He criticized me all the time to take the focus off of him. It wore me down..I have been divorced for two years now. Do I miss him? YES. But I do not miss the crazies and chaos. Two years ago Xmas was hard. Last year Xmas was hard. This year it is ok. Time heals......If 51% of him wants to drink....he will. I could not live in it. Surrender to Win.Let go or be dragged.
Surrender to Win. Let go or be dragged.
Thank you Carol Starr. Very helpful to me today. Grateful for that.
Margareta,
Just my experience, but there was no way I could be happy with an alcoholic, it just got worse and worse.
Lying, cheating, jail, car crashes. Good God what a mess.
Then alcohol wasnt enough, he started with crack, and lost everything.
I was the loneliest person in the world and I had no peace. None.
Please take care of yourself.