that does sound odd what i said doesnt it :-/
I am just really confused right now, don't even know if im on the right forum.
I mean he has had a problem with alcohol, and has had one or two slips, where he's had some vodka, but when i think of how much he was drinking just last christmas, god he's come a hell of way, only 2 beers the other night.
He's never drunk anymore. And to be honest its not really the drinking a few beers that bothers me. Its the knowing he's not happy fully, i dont know if its his past he hasnt fully got over, if he's got a bit of depression, if its the alcohol, i dont know what it is, but i can sense he's not fully happy, he still has his walls up and he just doesnt have a sex drive, he's a bit shy and un confident as well.
He's off work this week and i've told him how im feeling, he listened and always thinks im saying he doesnt do anything right (his last GF messed him up a lot)
just dont know what it is.
thank you all for all your replies by the way! x