Brixton, I also believe that alcoholism is the symptom and the problem is much deeper. Low self-esteem, in fact deeply hating myself, laid the groundwork for my addiction. And, the actual stopping drinking was easier than the journey of learning to like and to love myself. I am glad that you have support from your church.
ND, I too made some major changes in my life as I began my recovery. I moved geographically to a new area, left both my children behind as they were at university and gave up my job to follow my husband. I think you are following your instinct and that's great.