Thanks. Codependency is a bitch. But I am reading the codependent no more and going to meetings. My mother is a codependent and so am I but the cycle will stop here because my son is too precious for that. He is going to a meeting tonight and afterwards I will tell him there is no one more last chance. He is being very sweet but is a great manipulator and right now, makes my skin crawl. I think that is a sign. But I don't want my son to not have a dad around like I did growing up but I cannot put his health and safety at risk so he can have a dad around, that is silly. Thanks for the advice everyone!