Originally Posted by
Trying2BeMe 
Are these guys not interested because of your daughter or is it they can feel you are not over your XAH? Seems you are still allowing him to manipulate you even after all this time. Your heart has not healed. Do not let him back in your life. Get counselling and learn to love you. You are so much more and the perfect man will see that. Love thy self, be true.
From what I understand the usual line is they already have gone down the small child road and their kids are almost grown and gone if not gone already. They don't want to take on another child or have a woman that is so tied down with one. Plus the fact that I will have her 24/7 unless exah gets it together. No free time.