if you have hesitation about being labeled a drunk, try a few AA meetings. Its such a trip, because pretty much every time someone says they are an alcoholic or a drunk, there are cheers, applauding, knowing smiles and the laughter born of brother/sisterhood.
you may even come to the point in time where you are grateful to be an alcoholic, as I have, because it opens up a whole new set of coping tools, people to meet, and experiences you never would have had otherwise.
welcome