Sugah is on the money Neo. I'm a passionate guy - all or nothing. There were time in my first year I thought 'mmm, ok, so this is as good as it gets...
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Eventually tho I assimilated the not drinking bit, I made it part of who I am - and then got on with living.
I learned my life is what I make it - there's no rule that says you have to be at home on a Saturday night, no rule that says you can't do fun or exciting things.
No rule that says you have to do any of that either LOL.
The only 'rule' is...if you care for yourself, your life, and those who love you - don't drink
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