Trying--Thanks for the tips about the pictures, I'd forgotten about that legal advice. I will go about and take photos when I get home today/tomorrow and in the morning when he's not home. Great though, I'll feel better then.
If there's no separation agreement signed or anything, then do I really have any control or say over whether or not he sells our stuff?
By that token, what if I remove some of the computer equipment my parents gave us for his business, and sell that? Is that a big no-no? Maybe a question for the lawyer.. but just wondering. I was thinking about getting all the expensive equipment out.
JenT--Yes, the grocery shopping occurred before the big massive blowup. I was STARVING and went overboard at the store plus needed a bunch of cleaning supplies, so not all of it was food items. I will not be keeping a lot of food in the house from here on out.